I'd still count a girl asking me to beg to cum as femdom. You even used "dom" to describe it. That's just what it is, by definition. Granted, a lot of h-games go off the wall with femdom, and that might be why a lighter (more rooted in reality) level of femdom doesn't seem like anything due to desensitization or something.
I don't like femdom at all. It's a bit annoying that there's seemingly not much of a choice in how to approach the women besides some dialogue choices that don't seem to change much (at least, not enough imo), but oh well.
I'm still working through the content because I've been a bit busy and couldn't put too much time into this game, but it is nice that you can still pet her even if the sex scenes are a vibe I dislike.